My Daughter Husna

Let me tell you a story about this girl named Husna who’s our spunky and feisty 6-year-old (though the story is from last year pre-covid when she was still in school).

So about Husna... If I were to say she alone, in many ways, is equal to her three brothers, I wouldn’t be lying. She...

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Recovering From Parental Mistakes(ruptures)

Relationships are messy.

That’s the nature of them.

In all our relationships, we’re constantly having moments of connection and disconnection. That’s ok and normal.

We really want though, that the moments of connection with our kids should far exceed disconnection. When this...

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Which Mould Of Society Are You Trying To Fit Into

Time to get a bit real here.

 People always ask me how I'm getting so much stuff done.. kids, kids' homeschooling, my grad school (masters), my business/work and to answer this, I want to tell you about a conversation I had yesterday with my doctor.

First of all, why was I even at the...

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The Science Of Emotions

You hear a sound at midnight in your house and get scared. Fear is an emotion aka chemical event in your body that is happening to make you act. You get up, grab a weapon-ish thing and go look for what's going on. You're ready and armed to keep yourself alive and safe. The fear has pumped...

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Unconditional Love

Unconditional love is when our kindness extends to beyond their "good behavior"- when the going gets tough, how we act then is what defines our love, as far as they're concerned.

This is also why a lot of kids will say "you don't love me!" because what they're really saying is, "You don't love me...

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I Was Hit As A Child And I Turned Out Fine

Me and Sarah Ghazi were having a conversation today about why so many people say things like, “I was hit as a child and I turned out fine.”

This is true. Lots of people say similar things- not just about being hit but about being raised in an emotional desert. “We turned out...

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Childhood Experiences-How They Define Us.

Some people get very triggered when anything in regards to their childhood is brought up.

Perhaps their childhood is the best time they had in their life. Fair enough. Makes sense.

Perhaps they don’t understand the relevance of childhood experiences. Something happened so long ago- how the...

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Holding Space For Our Kids

So pause and think for a second... right now, what is something you're struggling with and feels hard? Not just related to parenthood but anything really.. what has you feeling discouraged, sad or just plain blah?

Now that you know what it is, do you think it would be nice if someone you love...

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From Lecturing To Understanding And Letting Go

If I asked you if its ok to break into someone's office to get something you need.. you'd probably say no. Heck no. If I told you I caught an employee of mine sneaking into my office behind my back, you'd say they're not worthy of my trust.. yes?

Consider the following.

Let's say your boss gives...

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It's The Small Stuff That Really Matters.

We think love is big things. We buy our kids whatever they need and more. We make all their wishes come true. We do stuff for them around the house so they don’t have to. We put them in the ‘best’ schools. We try to eliminate hardships from their lives. We do so so much for them...

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